Imagine for a second that you have absolute freedom to choose how to live your life: What would you choose? I am here to tell you: It is possible.
The first thing you need to do is to have a very clear idea of how that perfect life would be. Everybody who has what they want today, started as you and I. Nobody was born with a detailed blueprint of how to get what they wanted in life. They had to go out and discover the path to their dream by themselves. This is not about living a fairy-tale dream, but knowing exactly how you want your life to be. Imagine yourself as an artist and your life as your masterpiece.
What do you really want? Everything that is part of this world is at our reach. It is there for us. If something could be possible, it going to be possible, because you are going to make it possible. Whatever you desire already exist in this world. You suppose to pursue it.
Reaching your dreams and goals is not as easy as it sounds. It does not supposed to be. If we could have anything we want with the minimum effort, it would not feel as wonderful when we reach our goals. Our dreams would not have the same value. Sometimes we have to quit to some paths or choose one to reach our goals. The only way of knowing which path is the right one is letting your heart guide you, because your heart knows what makes you happy.
Think about everything you did until today. Think about the good and bad decisions you took. It brought you here and now, there are no mistakes. Life has its own ways of teaching you. Bad experiences and decisions made us who we are today. Whatever your situation is now, is not permanent. Neither happiness nor unhappiness are permanent. Our constant search for happiness begins at the first day of our lives.
Are you in charge of your life? Are you in charge of your thoughts? Nobody else in this world can be you nobody else can choose your thoughts feelings. They can influence them, if you let them, but NOBODY can choose what you think, and what you feel.
Do you see how important you are in your own life? Do you see how much power you have?
I sincerely wish that every single one of you be the happiest you could be. I know you can, you have the power to live your dreams and the only motivation should be your own happiness.